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Book Review of Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant?: A Memoir

Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant?: A Memoir
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A unique memoir told thru drawings, cartoon panels, photos, and some text. I found this to be a compelling read with both laugh out loud moments and tearing up moments. I'm currently in somewhat similar situation, so could relate closely to many of her struggles. I really appreciated her ability to bring humor to frustrating situations, along with her refreshing candor. Caregiving for ailing parents, especially when dealing with dementia, can be painful on many levels and it does help to know that one is not alone in sometimes losing patience or feeling that the responsibilities are a bit overwhelming. Although not a primary focus, I also appreciated the author pointing out the limitations, challenges, and high cost of healthcare. Many of her observations and experiences are thought-provoking. Her parents were fortunate enough to have sufficient savings to pay for an upscale assisted living facility, along with additional nursing or care services. So the progression of care and options follows along with paid help. The author focuses on her relationship and dealings with her parents exclusively. I did find myself wanting to know more about her relationship with her husband and kids. Overall a direct, honest, touching and memorable read.