When Am I Going to Be Happy Author:Penelope Russianoff Learn to change the emotional bad habits that make you unhappy. — Recognize Your Emotional Bad Habits (and start to break them); Throw Off Your Security Blanket (and accept that you can have happiness); Talk Tenderly To Yourself (and increase self-esteem); Use The "To You-Ness To Me-Ness" Technique (and respond to negative c... more »omments with firm conviction, not rage); Get Rid Of The Imposter Phenomenon (and stop devaluing yourself); Accept Praise (and cease being your own worst critic); Stop Measuring Your Self« less