In the Garden of Happiness Author:Dodinsky Words from Dodinsky: You forgive because you want to build a stronger relationship with yourself and NOT with the ones who hurt you. No matter how much negativity is thrown at YOU by others, there is no need for you to stay and partake in the decay they have chosen for their own lives. YOU decide how your soul grows. Cruelty - if you allow it ... more »- can subdue your spirit. You must not let darkness descend upon your heart by letting the actions of others cloud your sunshine. You can find inspiration from others, but DETERMINATION is solely your responsibility. WE are made of the strongest fabrics in the universe: hope, love, respect, courage, and perseverance. These are the threads we must use to mend our souls when misfortune tears our lives.« less