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Compelled to Achieve: Finding Balance Between Success and Excess
Compelled to Achieve Finding Balance Between Success and Excess Author:Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, Paul Meier We are a society that applauds drivenness. The slogan admonishes "be all that you can be." But this you-can-have-it-all attitude can become a harmful compulsion. Doctors Helfelt, Minirth, and Meier offer a compelling look at drivenness-gone-bad, sharing ground-breaking insight to prevent positive behaviors from becoming addictions. They s... more »hare a profile of behaviors that often develop into compulsions: speculative investing and risk-taking; perfectionism in work and play; a desire to "keep up with the Joneses" materially; and obsessive dieting, exercise programs, or cosmetic surgeries. Ironically, these are characteristics of top performers. But it is when we have a mistaken notion that mastery of these behaviors will meet our emotional hungers or offer deep personal satisfaction that it becomes a compulsion-and it becomes a threat to our mental well-being and even our health. Compelled to Achieve helps readers identify their compulsive drives and suggests touchstones for living a life of balance-where compulsions are tapered to positive behaviors worthy of applause.« less