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The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to High School, How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence
The Bully the Bullied and the Bystander From Preschool to High School How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence Author:Barbara Coloroso Drawing on her decades of work with troubled youth and her wide experience with conflict resolution and reconciliatory justice, bestselling parenting educator Barbara Coloroso offers a unique, practical, and compassionate book destined to become a groundbreaking guide to this escalating problem. Coloroso helps readers recognize the characteris... more »tic triad of bullying: the bully who perpetrates the harm; the bullied who is the target (and who may become a bully); and the bystander -- the peers, siblings, or adults who dont act to defuse the situation. Readers learn:
What bullying is and what it isnt; the three kinds of bullying; and the differences and similarities between boy and girl bullies
Why contempt, not anger, drives bullying
Why hazing is a form of bullying and how cliques feed the problem
The differences between teasing and taunting and between flirting and sexual bullying
How to read the subtle clues that a child is being bullied
Four abilities that protect your child from succumbing to a bully
Seven steps to take if your child is a bully
How to help the bullied child heal; effectively discipline rather than punish the bully; and increase a childs ability to take positive action
Why teaching a "code of compassion" is a more powerful antidote to bullying than conflict resolution techniques
Why zero tolerance policies can equal zero thinking
How to evaluate a schools antibullying policy and much more